My daughter Emma spends time between my ex’s vegan household and my own, where I cook regular meals including meat. Emma loves steaks and pot roast, but her mom strictly enforces a vegan diet. One day, Emma begged her mom to let her eat what she wanted, but her mom refused, humiliating Emma for her preferences. Emma ran to me upset and crying, overwhelmed by the pressure and harsh words. Soon after, her mom accused me of turning Emma against her due to the food choices allowed at my house.
I felt furious and protective. Emma is just a child who should never be mocked or punished for what she eats. Food is such a small thing to fight over, yet it’s causing deep emotional harm to my daughter. I started thinking about seeking full custody to protect her from this kind of humiliation and emotional stress while ensuring she has a safe, accepting environment.
I want Emma to feel loved and accepted in both homes. Respecting a child’s needs—even something as simple as food—is about valuing their individuality and wellbeing. If her mom can’t understand that, I’m ready to take action for my daughter’s best interests.
This situation has taught me that parenting requires compromise, empathy, and above all, putting the child’s emotional health first. I hope we can find a way to co-parent without causing unnecessary harm to Emma.
